Happy Drake Day

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While it may be some other religious-like holiday, I have officially deemed today…Drake Day.

Why you ask? One of the most handsome rappers alive has released not one…but TWO new music videos. I’ll give you a moment to process this greatness. Breathe into a paper bag if necessary.

The first music video is “HYFR” ft. Lil’ Wayne (ugh). It chronicles Drake’s re-bar mitzvah, which he celebrated back in 2011. The video starts off with a smaller version of Drake getting his groove on then transports us to the sweet, sweet party.

Leave it to Lil’ Wayne to be underdressed for the occasion.

The next video released on Drake Day is….”Take Care” ft. his number one lady Rihanna. Honestly, when are these two going to stop beating around the microphone and get married?!

It makes everyone on the planet so sad to continuously see the pain in Rihanna’s precious eyes.

While I don’t understand the concept of the snowy mountain, the big bird and the bull…I do love the shots of RiRi and Drizzy together.

Even though it is Drake Day…this message goes out to Rihanna: Girl, let Drake take care of you.

Stuck in my Head – ‘Business’

A few days ago I was cruising home from Philadelphia and decided to plug my sweet, sweet iPod in and hit the shuffle button. After a boatload of Britney and Rihanna jams, a song by Eminem ft. Dr. Dre popped up. The song is called “Business” and it encompasses a good beat and some superb lyrics. My fav: “Bitches and gentlemen it’s showtime.”

You can find “Business” on Marshall’s fourth album “The Eminem Show.” It was released July 7, 2003 and was the fifth single off the album.

I feel like you should give this song a listen for the sole fact that Eminem and Dr. Dre are using super hero language, such as:

  • “Holy wack, unlyrical lyrics Andre, you’re fuckin’ right”
  • “To the rapmobile, let’s go…”
  • “Gee willikers Dre, holy bat syllables”


Remember When…

Rihanna played “Russian Roulette”

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I am finally ready to discuss the Rihanna and Chris Brown remixes.

These days Chris Brown seems to be everywhere my little ears are. So I must ask…will someone punch me in the ears? I’ll give you a free shot…or five.

Like all the other independent woman out there, the last place I expected to hear Chris Brown was on a Rihanna track! And the last place I expected to hear Rihanna was on a Chris Brown track!

If you’ve been M.I.A the past few days, let me give you the 411. Chris Brown is featured on the remix for Rihanna’s song “Birthday Cake” and Rihanna is featured on a remix of Brown’s “Turn Up the Music.” Both tracks were released this past Monday.

Precious Rihanna even tweeted about the remix…

Ever since Brown hurt this national treasure, there has always been the “Are they or aren’t they back together” rumor.

Not surprisingly there has been a boatload of outrage about Rihanna and Brown collaborating. Basically, people can’t believe Rihanna is associating with Chris Brown again…and I don’t blame them!

This controversy made me think about a time when Rihanna was so sad and sang about playing “Russian Roulette.” You can hear her pain pouring out in the lyrics. Rihanna’s pain = my pain.

Rihanna…stay strong boo.

Chris Brown…Nope, still haven’t forgotten.

Topless Tuesday

Another Topless Tuesday, another topless gentleman.

Jesse Williams

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You may recognize Jesse Williams from the show that never ends…I mean “Grey’s Anatomy.” Let’s be real, I checked out of that show as soon as Katherine Heigl left. But I might be persuaded to jump in front of a moving vehicle if it gets me shipped to Seattle Grace. Hopefully my luck will then kick in and Jesse can use those electric paddles on me.

Jesse hails from Chicago, IL and was born Aug. 5, 1981. You may be wondering what gives him that beautiful skin tone…trust me, it’s not any Aveeno product. It comes from his Swedish mother and African American father.

As for Dr. Jesse’s education, I have really exciting news for my Philadelphia fans. Jesse attended Temple University and earned a dual degree in African American Studies and Film & Media Arts. What does this mean? He’ll probably be back for an alumni weekend. I’ll keep my eyes open.

While in college, Jesse modeled a bit and after graduating, took a job as a teacher in a Philadelphia public high school. Let me tell you, I would have never been late for that class.

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Jesse jumpstarted his acting career in 2006 with a guest spot on “Law & Order.” In 2008, he nabbed his first movie role, playing Leo in “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2.” Another pivotal role for Jesse was when he portrayed The Hotness Monster aka Drew Collins on “Greek.”

The year was 2009 and it was a big one for Jesse. The show’s producers announced that he would play Dr. Jackson Avery in a multi-episode arc on “Grey’s Anatomy.” His debut was in season six and by season seven, he was a full-time cast member. Go Jesse!

Now I must cover the piece of work that (in my opinion) is Dr. Jesse’s best work to date…Rihanna’s music video for “Russian Roulette.” Watch Rihanna’s pain and Jesse’s fake tattoos below:

Dear Jesse – I see that you were voted #11 on “TV’s Sexiest Men of 2011.” I have a feeling that you will break the top 10 this year. If you are ever visiting Temple and need a place to stay…I have a spot just for you.

Stuck in my head – ‘Talk That Talk’

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Rihanna released her sixth studio album “Talk That Talk” Nov. 21, 2011. Let me tell you…I was pumped.

When Rihanna releases an album, she typically talks about the important things in life. For example, Umbrellas, S&M and the dangerous game of Russian Roulette…all important factors in my life, as they should be in yours. Needless to say, I was looking forward to the wisdom of her sixth CD.

The first track released off this album was “We Found Love” = superb choice. While the song is upbeat, the lyrics tell a different and sad story. As for the music video, it showed the masses that RiRi is still in pain. I feel bad for the Chris Brown look-a-like…do you think he gets heckled on the street?

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Side note: I’ll see you in hell Chris Brown!

When the album was released, I like to chose the songs that should be released as singles. I was seriously campaigning for “Talk that Talk” ft. Hova and was slightly disappointed when I heard “You Da One” playing on the radio a few days ago. Sad face.

After going through a period of denial, depression and recovery, I’ve have accepted “You Da One” as the second single, but realized that I don’t have to like it.

My goal with this post is to start an Internet movement/revolution in order to get “Talk that Talk” ft. Hova as the third single off RiRi’s album.

Here are some reasons why:

  1. It features Mr. Hova
  2. You can play this song extremely loud in your Honda and look like a boss
  3. Rihanna taught me how to count from 1 to 4…thanks boo
  4. Jay-Z says the word “pee”
  5. Rihanna chants at the end…and who doesn’t love a good chant

Favise Lyrics: “I’mma get it right on the first try for you” (As do I Rihanna, as do I ).

Rihanna – I know once you read this, you will be convinced to release “Talk That Talk” as your third single. All I ask in return is to be featured in the music video. I’ve been working on my Pop, Lock and Drop It and I think I’ve finally hit the nail on the head. See you on set girl!

Non-Demeaning to Women Wednesday

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My roommates and I have a list on our refrigerator that has two columns. The column on the right is titled “Demeaning to Women” and the column on the left is titled “Non-Demeaning to Women.” We have a variety of characters on the list and (of course) I will share some with you.

In the Non-Demeaning to Women corner, we have:

  • Jennifer Lopez aka Jenny from the Block (from da Bronx)
  • Britney Spears (Obvi)
  • Rihanna
  • Spice Girls (Girl Power)
  • DJ Pauly D

As for the Demeaning to Women corner:

  • “The Bachelorette” & “The Bachelor” (Yea ABC)
  • CHRIS BROWN (Still haven’t forgotten you ass)
  • Dr. Phil
  • Dawson Leery
  • Gary and Corey from “Teen Mom”

So with this post, I would like to shine the spotlight on a person who is completing Non-Demeaning to Women acts.

This Wednesday, the Non-Demeaning to Women award goes to…


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Not only is this gentleman handsome, he is releasing his second studio album “Take Care” Nov. 15. Drake has a song on the upcoming album that is (in my opinion) finally not demeaning to women. The track is called “Make Me Proud” and it features Nicki Minaj.

Side note: I have always thought Drake was a friend to women and I’m waiting for him to put a ring on Rihanna’s finger.

Back to the topic at hand. You might be wondering why I think this song is non-demeaning to women. Here are some lyrics to prove my point:

“I know things get hard but girl you got it girl/You got it, there you go/Can’t you tell by how they looking at you everywhere you go”

“When all these motherf*ckers wanna waste your time/It’s just amazing girl, and all I can say is/I’m so, I’m so, I’m so, I’m so, I’m so proud of you”

“I like a woman with a future and a past/A lil attitude problem all good, it’ll make shit last/Don’t make it too easy girl, don’t take it too fast”

My personal favorite: “It must be hard to be that fine” (It actually is)

Thank you Drake. I feel empowered as a lady.

Speaking of Strippers…part III

While I’m still pouring through all of the fan mail and emails about your favise stripper jams (kidding), I have decided now is that time to conclude my Speaking of Strippers series.

The musical genre for this post is pop music…my specialty!

‘Can’t Be Tamed’ – Miley Cyrus

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As we all know…Miss Cyrus is no stranger to pole dancing…so choosing a jam by this pop singer is a wise choice. The classy lady who chose Miley shall be called…Queen Bee and for those who don’t know, she can get a bit crazy…just like Miley!

In another life, I could see Miley being a very popular/entertaining exotic dancer. Her real name is Destiny Hope for goodness sakes!

Side note: I would take it as a compliment if someone said I would be a very popular/entertaining exotic dancer. I think it’s a skill you are born with.

As for Queen Bee’s performance…I see the dance starting out in a birdcage…just like the music video. When the chorus hits…the money will be flying out of the customer’s hands! Work it…like a glass of water.

Lyrics that exotic dancers would probably be proud of: “I go through guys like money flyin’ out the hands/They try to change me but they realize they can’t/And every tomorrow is a day I never plan/If you’re gonna be my man understand/I can’t be tamed”

Take a listen and remember…she’s just being Miley.

‘Umbrella’ – Rihanna

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The final song one of my friends chose incase she decides to change to a more exotic career is “Umbrella.” This young lady picked the exotic dancer name…The Professor. Now that’s legit.

“Umbrella” is a very upbeat song that allows for one very special prop onstage…an umbrella…duh. I imagine The Professor’s routine including many umbrellas’ and handing them out…a nice parting gift for the customers.

I picture the “Umbrella” routine not only encompassing umbrellas, but also a shit ton of glitter. I have a feeling that if you add real water to the routine…the results might be less than favorable. I’m just trying to protect The Professor since I’m unsure if this career offers benefits.

Lyrics that exotic dancers would probably be proud of: Now that it’s raining more than ever/Know that we’ll still have each other/You can stand under my umbrella/You can stand under my umbrella

Watch and learn from Rihanna.

Well, that concludes my Speaking of Strippers series. If you are looking for additional information on this career path, I highly recommend “How to Make Love Like a Porn Star” by Jenna Jameson. It will change your life.


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